Sound Familiar?
You're Not Broken-You have a Capacity Crisis!
You're exhausted, yet you keep pushing through.
You've become so good at "pushing through" that you don't even know when you're breaking, until it's too late.
You're praised for being strong, but no one sees how much it costs you.
You hold space for others—lead teams, manage homes, run classrooms, serve clients—but can't recall the last time someone held space for you.
You're doing all the "right" things—yet still feel behind.
You check off the self-care boxes, but feel more defeated than restored.
You bouce between overworking or perfectionism and quiet resentment or shut-down.
You're trying to self-care your way out of burnout from leadership and caregiving roles.
You want to protect your energy—but you've never been shown how to say "no" without guilt.
You've normalized some form of chaos, chronic stress, or overwhelm, but deep down, you're craving clarity.
You don't want to burn out or abandon your dreams—but slowing down or finding balance feels impossible.
You're tired of surviving and ready to reclaim peace and purpose...but don't yet know what thriving really looks like.
You know there's a better way, but don't know where to start.
In The Capacity Code™, capacity strategist and trauma expert Valarie dismantles the myths keeping us stuck in cycles of exhaustion, overcommitment, and frustration. With sharp insight and practical tools, she introduces a new way to think about energy, resilience, and success—one that doesn't require you to do more, but does require that you think and do differently.
Meet the Author
Valarie Lynn Somerville Harris
Valarie is a disruptor of outdated self-care narratives, challenging how we think about energy, resilience, and sustainable success. With over two decades in trauma care and mental health, she blends clinical expertise with lived experience to deliver insight, humor, and hope—establishing herself as a trusted voice in capacity management, leadership development, and trauma-competent innovation.
As founder of the Trauma & Therapy Center of Tennessee, Valarie led a team that delivered over 51,000 counseling sessions while building a million-dollar teaching practice mentoring emerging clinicians. She created the Intern Development Model—a roadmap for turning students into standout clinicians—and launched Educate & Elevate™, a mastermind for group practice owners looking to grow their value, revenue, and impact through purposeful teaching practices.
Now as CEO of Trauma Care Pro, Valarie equips high-achievers, leaders, and organizations to build and protect their capacity—so they can lead, serve, and live without burning out. Her work has been featured in Insider, Very Well Mind, SheKnows, Lotic AI, and on Legacy Makers TV, as part of the “Mindset & Motivation” Season–where her story of resilience continues to inspire global audiences.
Known for sharp insight and a no-nonsense approach, Valarie helps people move from overwhelmed to unstoppable. In The Capacity Code™, she invites readers to rethink self-care, reclaim energy, and thrive—even in seasons of chaos.
For those who push hard, perform well, and still feel like it’s never enough. This book helps you reclaim your time, energy, and peace without sacrificing your ambition. Learn how to expand your capacity without chasing more, and finally feel like you’re winning on your own terms.
For the therapists, coaches, nurses, and anyone who holds space for others while quietly neglecting their own. This book gives you permission to stop pouring from an empty cup and equips you to expand your energy without guilt—so you can keep doing the work that matters without burning out.
For the teachers, department chairs, professors, trainers, and mentors who pour into others day after day. This book is your blueprint to replenish your energy and resilience, helping you sustain your passion without burnout—because you deserve as much care as you give.
For the entrepreneurs, team leads, and change-makers juggling vision, people, and performance. The Capacity Code™ helps you lead without losing yourself, protecting your energy so you can drive impact sustainably—not just for your team, but for yourself.
For the moms, partners, and family anchors who carry it all—often unseen, always essential. The Capacity Code™ helps you protect your energy, set boundaries that stick, and show up for those you love without losing yourself in the process.
For the people-first professionals navigating the messy middle between company goals and human needs. The Capacity Code™ helps you build resilience, manage emotional labor, and protect your own capacity, so you can lead cultures of care without sacrificing your own well-being.
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